Sunday, 25 November 2012

WHY I SPEAK OUT AGAINST RELIGION.


As I have always maintained, I do not care if believers worship a blue-eyed blonde semi naked Jew on a cross, a bearded dessert dwelling prophet, a fat cow, a golden snake or a thunder God, as long as they do not force their beliefs down my throat, teach it to children as FACT in public schools, preach it to me in public space or seek to make their religion my state law, I do not care. But when they do any of these, of course they are going to have their religion put under intellectual scrutiny and if found wanting, it shall be exposed and If funny, it shall be ridiculed. When people preach to me about a talking snake, talking donkey and a Noah’s ark, I reserve every right to ridicule such funny tales and be indignant that anyone should be allowed to teach such absurdities as facts in public schools.

Anyone is free to believe in a cow, snake, a blue eyed blonde who turned into a Zombie, a long bearded pedophile prophet or a golden snake; it is none of my business so far they keep their beliefs to themselves. However it immediately becomes my business when I am forced to adhere to and pay for some ridiculous beliefs of others. I pay my tax as a dutiful citizen, yet those religious establishments are exempted from paying tax, they are sponsored on some ridiculous pilgrimages with tax payers’ money! This is not even enough for them, as they are always trying to influence state policies and Laws based on their ludicrous beliefs, they even attempt to stop scientific progress especially in the area of Stem cell research all because of their religious belief in the existence of a soul!

I often get bombarded with protest messages on my facebook wall and social media inbox about my anti-religion posts, I am using this post to answer 10 questions that keep popping up, and also clarify why I speak out against religion. Now, I have a handy link for the next aggrieved person! Problem solved!
 1-     Anti-Religion posts are disrespectful, as an LGBT activist, you should preach tolerance!
About respect and tolerance, RESPECT is not given, but EARNED. ALL beliefs must earn their PLACE OF RESPECT.  Being a LGBT advocate / HUMAN RIGHTS ACTIVIST does not just depend on a belief system but a FACT that LGBT rights are HUMAN RIGHTS and all human beings are born equal in rights and dignity.

I would definitely defend the right of anyone to practice their religion so far it is not harmful, does not violate my space, does not seek to impose state policy and have no SPECIAL STATUS in governance and they PAY THEIR TAXES like every other corporation!

The holy books are public books that are shoved in my face everywhere I turned, I have a right to review these books and give my two cents, irrespective of whose OX is gored. Anyone who is so qualified is free to dispute the scientific fact about sexual orientation, evolution or the principled beliefs, laws and various treaties on human rights.

RESPECT is earned not demanded, if I genuinely believed that a particular belief is ludicrous, of course I am not going to respect it because to respect something, you have to VALUE IT. I do not value irrationality. I don't believe a woman should be treated as a property, a child should have a knife put on his neck by his own father who heard a voice from heavens that he should sacrifice his son as a test of his faith or that all human beings are born with an ORIGINAL SIN allegedly committed by a white couple known as Adam and Eve, therefore all humans are condemned to burn in hell forever unless they become born again by believing in a man named Jesus who came to die for a sin we never even committed and woke up again after 3 days to roam the earth like a Zombie!  Well, these are simply ridiculous, I do not RESPECT these and I do not have to keep shut about it ESPECIALLY when the believers of these myths keep telling me to give my life to their ZOMBIE CHRIST or die in hell.

2-     Atheists are antagonistic; they are as bad as religious fanatics!

Atheists didn't start the antagonism; atheists have never stoned anyone to death for believing in a god!
 The believers are the ones who have been fighting wars and blowing people and buildings up in the name of their God.  They are the ones who come knocking on my door to preach to me, they call me a fool for not believing a white bearded tyrant they call God created the world in seven days and in white he created my ancestors, and this tyrant loving father magnanimously sent his handsome blue eyed blonde of a sexy son to come to earth and save me from a sin allegedly committed by a white couple who they say I descended from!  And yeah, he turned his own son into a ZOMBIE all because he loved me even before I was born although he already sadistically created an eternally burning hell for those of us who refused to be fooled, what a sadist and btw, I don't like dictators, whether spiritual or physical. On a side note, I do think Jesus makes ZOMBIES look sexy, especially in that loin cloth on the cross, which really could qualify as porno!!!  

Abeg, COMRADE JESUS, save me from your followers, they rant in public places including inside a bank, and that was right here in London and of course it was a fanatic black man ranting about the good gospel, by the look of him, it seems the good gospel didn't do him much good! And just few days ago, another wouldn’t let me catch a wink of sleep in an interstate bus with his praise worship and preaching all through the entire journey, hahaha, talk about tolerance!

Atheists do not go to people to convert them, it is usually the other way round, most importantly, ATHEISM is not a religion, you cannot convert people to atheism, people can voluntarily use their brain to come to a rational conclusion about their beliefs, embrace rationality or cling to faith, sorry BUT blind faith is not good enough for some of us, however you are welcome to your faith, belief or philosophy.

AS LONG AS these "HOLY BOOKS" remain in the NON FICTION SECTION and are sold, peddled and preached to us as NON FICTION and the TRUTH, every interested person has a right to openly analyze and criticize these so called holy books. I really do not care if religious believers are offended by my rational criticism because it is not my problem that they cannot tolerate criticism of their religious beliefs. Their religious sensitivity is not a valid reason to CENSOR the expression of rational thoughts.

Christians often refer to other deities, especially African carved deities as DEAF and DUMB, they call the idols handmade gods that cannot hear, speak, see or act, as if their Rosary and crucifix are not handmade! I wonder how many of the Christians complaining about my anti religion posts ever stood up during one of such VERY COMMON sermons condemning traditional Gods, to advise their PASTOR to be tolerant of other deities, or do they all just look the other way and pat themselves on the back for choosing the MOST POWERFUL OF ALL GODS? How bigoted!

People have a right to belief and people also have a right not to believe, since your precious bible and many of its believers call us non believers A FOOL, we have the right to point out how stupid the various myths in your precious holy books appear to rational mind. And as difficult as this is for ‘faithers’ to belief,  for some of us, A BRAIN, NOT FAITH IS ALL WE NEED!
 

3-     “The Christians have not written long paragraphs on fb trying to convince us to buy their beliefs. Yet the so called non-believers go on and on trying to sell us their ideology”.

 REALLY? There are many religious posts and groups on Facebook and many other social networks. I have friends who talk about their God, love for Allah, their precious prophet Mohammed or how Jesus just saved them from an accident (never mind that the others that died were not considered worthy to be saved by their darling God, what egoism!). Such posts appear on my Newsfeeds everyday but I do not feel a need to go to their page to ask them why they sprout such nonsense. Their beliefs or who they give thanks to is simply none of my business. If you don't like what I post, do not read it, Facebook is like a restaurant, if you don’t like what I am serving, go eat somewhere else!

 When people hold beliefs that are irrational and stupid and they preach it to the world as the TRUTH, other rational beings will continue to point out how ridiculous and stupid these beliefs are especially when believers are quick to judge non believers!

Why must I respect the sensitivity of others who believe a gay person should be stoned to death because their holy books say so, or that women should be submissive and be treated as properties, or glorify a deity that encourages slavery and sanctioned that his so called chosen people should commit genocide in his name?
 

4-     “Live and Lets Live!”

“Live and Lets Live”, my sentiments exactly. However, I have realized that many Religious people don't do the "Live and Lets Live" thing; in fact, they want to legalize their religious dogmas! So I have decided to SPEAK OUT for myself and other voiceless people who want to be heard. I peddle Logic, they peddle Faith, let’s see which one would save the world from Malaria, Cancer, Climate change, Rapists, Genocides, Animal cruelty, Discrimination and a whole lots of other evils!

Of course if people chose to be lied to, that is their prerogative, although from a legal point, it also becomes the business of the law when the LIAR uses their lies to exploit or harm vulnerable people.

EXPOSING the lies people choose to believe becomes my prerogative when these lies encroach on my rights, personal life and state laws. Religion is like a penis, it is OK to have one, it is even OK to be proud of it, BUT it is not OK to bring it out and flaunt it in public AND it is definitely not OK to try to force it down my throat or down my child’s throat! 
And the mere fact that religious believers feel the need to come on my page to demand I RESPECT their religious beliefs even though I think these beliefs are ridiculous, also confirms that they are under the false impression that RELIGION is above critical analysis and objective criticism, thereby trying to CENSOR my speech because of their belief that RELIGION MUST BE RESPECTED. This is a false premise that no logical, civilized society should accept.
Religion can hardly be considered a sleeping dog; it is more of a barking bull than a sleeping dog, always eager to bite. I care about the ill effects of religion on my life and how people try to justify discrimination based on religious beliefs, so I won’t let this barking dog have a field day, I refuse to be a passive victim.  ALSO, I only respect ideas that are worth respecting therefore religion as an instrument of oppression does not pass the respect quotient. 

5-     Atheists are arrogant and think they are intellectually superior!



Atheists do not claim intellectual superiority, however if a person comes to me and say the earth is flat and less than 6,000 years old, that snakes and donkeys used to talk, a man walked on water and Noah floated an Ark with all species aboard… of course I am going to laugh out loud and point out the IRRATIONALITIES inherent in these claims. If by so doing, the person feels stupid or thinks I am claiming intellectual superiority, well maybe the person should feel stupid and acknowledge that these ideas are ridiculous and irrational! You can’t blame me for being intelligent enough to point out ignorant claims. I cannot be held responsible for another person's feeling of ignorance or inadequacies and I cannot, because I do not want anyone to feel intellectually inadequate, refuse to criticize ignorant claims that have been proved to be baseless.

However, I am intelligent enough to understand that REASON is lost on many believers, especially since if one could REASON with Religious believers, THERE WOULDN'T be any religious believers!


6-     You have a point but you are too harsh on believers!

This could also read as  "Yemisi is honest and direct but she is not diplomatic and does not show enough warmth nor hug the haters enough, in fact she needs to show more love to the haters."
Hmm… Ok, let me put this straight, I think this is the same reasoning that leads the society to blame the victims of criminals.
  • Maybe if that woman had covered up and not wear that short dress, the rapist wouldn't have been tempted to rape her. 
  •  Maybe if that housewife had not raised her voice against her husband, the husband wouldn't have beaten her black and blue. 
  • Maybe if Atheists keep their godless mouth shut, no one would be offended enough to leave threat messages on their walls. 
Maybes, maybes, maybes… leading to
  •  Maybe if Homosexuals do not flaunt their lovelife in public, they wouldn't be attacked on the street. 
  •  Maybe if Transsexuals stopped being who they are, they wouldn't be murdered .
  •  Maybe if atheist don’t proclaim their non belief,, they wouldn’t be called fools and jailed for blasphemy. 

And on and on it goes. I CANNOT SUGAR COAT INJUSTICE, ALWAYS SPEAK OUT AGAINST HUMAN RIGHTS VIOLATIONS NO MATTER WHOSE OX IS GORED.

The truth is bitter but it must be told, I do not need to hug ignorance or haters so as to get them to respect my right and space.  I presume first and foremost that people who comment on my posts are ADULTS; therefore I do not need to treat them with kids’ gloves or buy them candies.  Also, there are established social ethics, people should not expect a hug after leaving homophobic, ignorant statements on my wall, of course I would give them an EDUCATION, if that education hurts their ego, well that is their problem.


7-     For a human right activist, you have so much hate fuelled by your atheism!

My Human Rights activism is borne out of my belief in humanity, not out of hatred of human rights violators. I can only do what I do so passionately because I believe in humanity and understand the meaning of love. I feel ‘Love’ enough to want a positive change, enough to speak out and enough to tell the haters just where to go chuck their ignorance and hate. Without love, I wouldn't be a passionate human rights activist; I would simply be a human rights careerist going through the motions of defending rights learned at school.

My fierce attitude comes from my passion for the causes I undertake and I am happy that in the 15 years I have actively being defending human rights professionally and personally, I am yet to reach that stage where I would say" I USED TO BE FIERCE", in all sincerity, I hope I never do get to that stage because all causes I am fierce about are worth dying for till the last of the injustice is erased.

 8-     We are sick of your Blasphemy!

Ever heard of CENSORSHIP? Ever heard of that right we fought for called 'Freedom of Expression'? Do you understand that Freedom of Religion also means Freedom from Religion? Asserting my atheism means talking about my NON BELIEF in GOD(s).

 I am not going to believers’ space to demand that they stop talking about their precious God, why should they demand that I must not talk about how improbable and ridiculous their God is or about the atrocities committed in their God's name in my own space?

Religion is one of many ideologies in the market place of ideas, it is not a copyright belonging to  Christians, Muslims or other religious believers. Once this idea is peddled in a public place, and 'Holy' books published and distributed to members of the public, it becomes open to review like every other public ideas and ideologies. If you don't want your God critically analyzed, learn to keep your God private. Simple!

I will ignore this nonexistent being when his Adherents stop influencing state policies and Law in His name, when they stop trying to put me in jail for 14 years because of my sexual orientation in His name, when they stop teaching their fictional tales to children in schools as NON Fiction, when they stop trying to convert me to their religion, when they stop telling me I will burn in hell… maybe then I will consider leaving them alone to enjoy their imaginary Sky Daddy, until then… they have got mail!

Blaspheme is a word that should not exist, and the fact that it exists at all is what sickens me, the fact that people go to jail for criticizing a religion makes me want to puke, the fact that 25,000 Muslims took to the streets in India and burned down Buddhists temples because as they claimed, a Buddhist mocked Islam on his facebook page is sickening!
If believers want something to get sickened about, no, it is not the number of atheists, freethinkers, secularists and skeptics satirizing religion or ridiculing so called prophets and imaginary beings on Blasphemy Rights Day,  the real sickness is the fact that some people think they are justified to harass, torture and go on a violent spree because their feelings was hurt when someone drew a picture of their beloved prophet or when I proclaim that  I do not believe in their God.  The vitriol of hate comes from the men who shot a girl for wanting to go to school and get an education! No, atheists are not the ones filled with hate!

What I hate is the fact that whether I believe in God or not, part of my tax payers money goes to sponsoring annual holy pilgrimages, my country which claims to be a democratic secular state is in fact a member of the Organization of Islamic Countries (OIC) even though the numbers of Christians and closeted pagans probably outnumbered Muslims in the country. I hate that every opportunity, believers try to influence state laws and policies quoting from their idiotic religious beliefs. Now, this is a daily nightmare I face in a religious society.  

Well, it is worth pointing out that I am not the one going on other people's wall to tell them not to talk about their beliefs,
  • I do not get offended when people post on their wall that God just saved them from a disaster. 
  • I do not foam in the mouth when believers post on their wall that atheists are fools. 
  • I do not come running like a maniac to another person's wall just because a friend commented on a religious post and the post appeared on my news feed.  

9-     You must have suffered hurt to turn into an atheist!

 What hurt? Yeah, another all assuming person concluding that something terrible must have happened for one to turn one into an atheist! Another ignoramus telling an atheist that all it takes to become an atheist is for religious minded folks to hurt you and bang, you turn into an atheist!  This is such a ridiculous assumption which I am tired of hearing. It is the same as assuming that a woman is a lesbian because she had been hurt or raped by men!

Now stare into your screen and read this-

MY ATHEISM IS NOT A RESULT OF HURT CAUSED ME BY RELIGIOUS MINDED FOLKS, IT IS BECAUSE I READ THE BIBLE AND THE BIBLE TURNED ME INTO AN ATHEIST. THE VARIOUS HOLY BOOKS MADE ME REALISED THAT HUMANS FROM TIME IMMEMORIAL, HAVE BEEN CREATING GODS IN THEIR OWN VINDICTIC, BIGOTED, EGOISTIC, JEALOUS AND SELFISH IMAGE!


10- Atheists are only interested in ridiculing religion!

As an Atheist I do not believe in the existence of a God, as a secularist,  I am for the separation of State and religion and as an Anti-Theist, I am actively against THEISM for its lack of evidence and the way it  encourages the growth of what  I refer to as 'The Cancer Called Religion'

I should be free to express myself and the religious people should be free to express themselves. Freedom of expression is one of the tenets of democracy, I can carry placards saying I do not believe your God exist, and you can carry placards calling me a fool. So far it is all about PEACEFUL demonstration, we are OK. Hate speech is what we are against, never confuse freedom of speech with Hate speech, Free speech liberates, Hate Speech Kills, unfortunately many suicides victims of BULLING are not alive to testify to this fact.


 Anyway, why would I want to respect a God or belief that preaches about a Talking Snake, an Original Sin passed down to generation unborn, a vindictive God who sanction genocide and order the wiping out of whole communities including children and animals simply because of a jealousy fit he had when these members of the communities refused to worship him and carved for themselves other Gods in golden image? Why would I not laugh at a book that claims the planet earth is flat and stands on four corners of the universe?

And why won’t I laugh at these believers who still come knocking on my door to preach these ridiculous beliefs to me even after we have strong evidence that the planet is not flat, the first human was not white, Noah’s Ark could never have sailed and that not all living things lived within few miles of Noah’s house! It is funny, ridiculous and so pathetic that some people still go around preaching this shit!

Of course it is comedy gold and I shall laugh, but I shall also fight back when these ridiculous beliefs are the basis of my oppression. I shall speak out because their book claims that as a woman, I am inferior and should not have same rights, I should be stoned to death for being bisexual and because of their religious beliefs, they want to pass a 14 years imprisonment law for Lesbians, Gays, Bisexuals, Transsexuals and LGBT rights advocates in my country. Yes, it is ridiculous, ignorant and wicked, so i shall speak out while laughing at their folly. That is the freedom of democracy; every idea is open to scrutiny in the market place of ideas. I criticize Capitalism and Disney films that promote gender stereotypes, why should I not criticize Religion? Is it not just another idea peddled in the market place of ideas therefore open to public scrutiny?

RELIGION has no criticism pass! And why would any believer wants an immunity pass for their religion, after all if you truly believe in something, defend it with LOGIC, not with Fatwas,  bombs and Guns! 

Faith is not Knowledge that is why it is called FAITH. Some of us prefer KNOWLEDGE because Knowledge is what gets things done; Knowledge is responsible for many development and our civilization not faith.
My position on religion was well stated by one of my favourite Atheist blogger,  Greta Christina in her blog post 'The Armour of God , or The Top One Reason Religion Is Harmful.

“I'm not saying that religion is the root of all evil. I'm not arguing that a world without religion would be a blissful Utopia where everyone holds hands and chocolate flows in the streets. (And then we all die, because the chocolate is drowning us and we can't swim because we're holding hands.) I don't know of any atheist who'd argue that. I know that the impulses driving evil are deeply rooted in human nature, and religion is far from the only thing to inspire it.

I'm saying that religion provides a uniquely stubborn justification for evil. I'm saying that religion is uniquely armored against criticism, questioning, and self-correction... and that this armor protects it against the reality checks that act, to a limited degree and in the long run, to keep evil in check. I'm saying that religion takes the human impulses to evil, and cuts the brake line, and sends them careening down a hill and into the center of town.

Yes -- even moderate religion. Not to nearly the same degree as extreme religion, of course. If all religion were moderate, ecumenical, separate from government, supportive of science, and accepting of non-belief... well, atheists would still disagree with it, but most of us wouldn't much care.

But moderate religion still does harm. It still encourages people to believe in invisible beings, inaudible voices, intangible entities, undetectable forces, and events and judgments that happen after we die. And therefore, it still disables reality checks... making people more vulnerable to oppression, fraud, and abuse.” 


Dear theist, I must also inform you that contrary to your frequent rant on how Atheists hate God, I DO NOT HATE GOD, I CANNOT HATE THAT WHICH DOES NOT EXIST! I hate to break it to you but you've only succeeded in creating a lousy character you named God, it still does not mean this character actually exist. Grow up theists, Superman, Batman, Let Luthor, Darkseid might elicit love and hate, it still does not mean they actually exist! 

This atheist voice will not keep quite because of your inability to tolerate logic; you really should consider flushing religion down the drain and save our planet!




 

Saturday, 17 November 2012

PRESS STATEMENT ON NIGERIAN HOMOPHOBIC BILL


Nigerian LGBTIs in Diaspora against Anti Same Sex Laws 

 PRESS STATEMENT

The anti same sex marriage bill criminalizing same sex marriage and stipulating 14 years imprisonment for Nigerians who engage in same sex relationship has passed through the second reading in the House of Representatives. The House Speaker Aminu Tambuwal has referred the bill to the Committee of the Whole House for consideration. LGBT rights are Human Rights.

As stated in our position paper on the Anti Same Sex marriage bill, Fundamental Human Rights of sexual minorities are violated daily because of criminalization of same sex relationship and societal prejudice.The homophobic bill violates fundamental human rights that are guaranteed under the Nigerian constitution and various human rights regional and international laws and agreements that Nigeria has ratified. Thus this Bill would nullify some parts of the Constitution.

Also, the bill would lead to political and social harassment of people for their actual or imputed sexual orientation. It would also stifle freedom of expression and association through the proposed ban on organizations that support Lesbians and gay rights.

The bill would further affect Nigeria’s Human rights records.  Individuals, general society and institutions including the police would use it as a license to intimidate and harass citizens based on their actual or suspected sexual orientation. The passing of the bill would give official validation to the harassment of sexual minorities and many homophobic persons would use it as a license to discriminate against lesbians and gays.

Sodomy law is a relic from British colonization. The British parliament and many of its former colonies e.g. Canada, Australia, South Africa and India have since repealed the law. Why is Nigeria clinging and seeking to strengthen this antiquated and erroneous law through the proposed Anti-same sex relationship bill? The argument that any sexual act or relationship that deviates from the standard heterosexual norm is against African culture is using “culture” to sanction the erasure of dialogue about alternative sexualities and to condone homophobia, therefore constituting a form of cultural violence. A society that stifles sexual and gender identities discourages the recognition of human dignity. LGBTI rights are human rights.

If two people of the same sex want to make their relationship more stable and commit themselves more deeply to each other, this can only be good for Nigeria. It makes no difference whether the couple is gay or straight. We ask that the lawmakers reconsider their decision to pass this bill as it infringes on the Human Rights of Nigerian LGBT people.
Nigeria LGBTIs in Diaspora against Anti Same Sex Laws call on all Nigerians to oppose the Anti Same Sex Marriage bill.  If passed, President Goodluck Jonathan must not sign this homophobic bill into law.
Nigerian LGBTIs in Diaspora against Anti Same Sex Laws affirms that LGBT RIGHTS ARE HUMAN RIGHTS and every Nigerian deserve the same right every other Nigerian enjoys irrespective of class, sex, gender or sexual orientation.
Signed on behalf of Nigerian LGBTI in Diaspora against Anti Same Sex Laws
Yemisi Ilesanmi- nanfs2001@yahoo.com
Davis Mac-Iyalla – dmaciyalla@gmail.com
John Adewoye-  teju9999@yahoo.com
Mojisola  Adebayo- mojisolaadebayo@hotmail.com
Toyin Ajao- teeajao@yahoo.com

WEBSITE LINK-  Nigerian LGBTIs in diaspora against Anti Same Sex Laws-Press statement

Thursday, 1 November 2012

STORMY SANDY


Sandy, Oh stormy Sandy
Why are you so angry?
Scorching guts like brandy
Striking with a fiery fury
Leaving paths blurry
Living ones teary

Sandy, gusty sandy
A vixen so broody
Homies gave you room
But you brought doom
As you stake your claim
With such vicious pain

Oh Sandy, why so gory
In your thirst for glory
You were an expected guest
Who couldn’t be at her best
Raining on friendship stars
With buckets of sandy tears

Tempestuous sandy
You’ve earned a candy
Hold your breath
For a trick or treat
A rite of passage to groom
In anger management dome.
 BY © YEMISI ILESANMI, 1 November 2012



Wednesday, 17 October 2012

ORGANISING SEX WORKERS WITHIN MAINSTREAM LABOUR MOVEMENT


The controversy of whether “sex work” can be defined and treated as real work or not is one that evokes a lot of emotion and sentiments. This is not surprising because the answer to this will determine whether this area of “Work” deserves to be acknowledged and given as much legal and social protection and recognition as any other type of work recognized under the auspice of labour laws. It cannot be denied that “sex workers”, like them or hate them, provide a service. Since prostitution is commonly referred to as the oldest profession, sex work is a service as old as humankind.
 
 

With the advent of globalization, internet dating, chat rooms, cyber-sex etc, the world’s touted oldest profession has not been left behind in modernizing its trade and services to keep up with the ever changing technology; dynamism is indeed the name of the game. In today’s world, a sex worker is no longer just the woman in skimpy red dress and high heels, lurking at the corner of the street in the middle of the night looking for a customer. A sex worker now include prostitutes, pornography actors and actresses, chat room /telephone sex providers, escorts, gigolos etc.  

However, like all work, especially in this era of neo–globalization and privatisation of anything that generate profits, prostitutes in many cases do not own their bodies anymore, many are not really in a position to negotiate the prices for their services. The big lords, hotel owners, club owners, chat room owners, internet warlords are now the real employer of sex workers' labour. The money bags have the money to run the business, employ women and in a growing number of cases men too, to render sexual services, they act as the sub contractors, in fact, it is just an advanced stage of pimping.

‘IF YOU HAVE A BOSS, YOU NEED A UNION” is a popular slogan in Labor movement. It is increasingly obvious that sex workers are in most cases employed by other big time business operators, who like many employers, are basically concerned about profit and not necessarily the welfare of their employees. Even in cases where sex workers are their own bosses, instances of police brutality and harassment abound. Policemen have been known to extort sex workers, demand for cuts from their earnings, deny them protection, rape and torture them; in fact, sex workers are subjected to all sorts of indignities and degrading treatment when arrested.
In Nigeria, it is a common occurrence for policemen to raid a brothel, clubs or local joints to arrest young women, especially female students on the suspicion of prostitution. To the policemen, the  evidence  of the prostitution charge lies in the  way the women are dressed, their physical appearance, if they were smoking, drinking alcohol, the company they keep, or just the mere fact that they were in that environment at an 'ungodly' hour serves as evidence of prostitution.
Many women arrested in such circumstances are often tortured, extorted, blackmailed, raped and assaulted. In an effort to protect their identity and secure their freedom, these young women would do anything to please their torturers. Sometimes they are forced to confess to crimes they never committed and in many cases, are forced to perform sexual favours to gain their freedom. Of course, this action of the police is sexist, a violation of so many fundamental human rights and a restriction on the right of women to move freely in the country.

It is however interesting to note that the over-zealousness of the police is never extended to elitist clubs. Sex workers, who work for and provide services to the elites, enjoy a sort of coded protection. However the protection is only valid for as long as the boss is pleased, any disagreement or rancor could lead to withdrawal of that protection. Therefore the power to negotiate the terms and conditions of service is tacitly taken away from the vulnerable sex workers.
Also, sex workers are often looked at as disease carriers, a mobile carrier of HIV/AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases. While there is no gainsaying that exposure to many sexual partners without protection increases the risk of contacting a sexually transmitted disease, it is also important to note that the client could be as guilty if not more guilty than the service provider therefore it is important to involve and educate the clients too on the need to practice safer sex. It is important to have a holistic approach to this subject in order to curb sexually transmitted diseases. 

Sex workers must be accorded the respect they deserve and seen as stakeholders who can contribute meaningfully to creating awareness about HIV/AIDS and help curb its spread. We must also recognize that sexual health and well being of sex workers is also important.
The stigmatization and consequent exploitation of sex workers would be minimized if sex work is accorded its recognition as a bonafide job, a real job which has its challenges like every other job but which also has its rights and protections under the law.
Criminalization of sex-work in many countries and jurisdictions makes it difficult to create a safe, enabling environment and workplace for sex workers. The continued criminalization of sex-work, rather than serves as a deterrent has only succeeded in exposing sex workers to violence, intimidation, harassment, exploitation etc.

As was said in the Wolfenden Committee report of 1957, what two adults do in the privacy of their rooms is no business of the law. Decriminalization of sex work would make it easier to organize sex workers, improve their working conditions, curb exploitation and protect their rights and accord them the dignity in labour every worker deserves.

Recognizing sex work and organising sex workers within mainstream labour movement is a task not just for the unions but one that must jointly be carried out by both the trade unions and sex workers.  Sex workers must be ready to organise themselves from within, they must be prepared to approach unions that are capable of meeting their needs and willing to accept them as full members with all the rights accorded members.

Trade unions on their part must be ready to live up to its primary duties, which is organising workers and protecting their rights. In this time when the labour movement is concerned about dwindling membership mainly due to global economy down turn, trade unions should look towards organising this untapped membership.

Sex workers have bosses in many cases, they work under hazardous conditions, and sometimes under very demeaning circumstances, they need protection from dangerous clients, overzealous policemen, and even the larger society.

Organising sex workers would also give them the opportunity to build their capacity to negotiate their own services and contracts, educate and empower them enough for them to make a true choice or at least give them a chance to really have a choice. 

No one should be forced to be a sex worker; it should be voluntarily chosen. Unfortunately, our economy reality has restricted the power to freely choose our profession, however it is still imperative that conditions of work in this profession is subjected to international labour standards. Sex workers should not be abandoned to their fate just because they happened to be on the wrong side of a questionable law.

The key word is CHOICE and an ENABLING/EMPOWERING environment to make a CHOICE. Many choose 'prostitution' or what I'd rather refer to as 'Commercial Sex Work' to survive the brutal economy. Just the same way many women and men choose to enter into Marriage unions or relationships for economy reasons and same way many migrants are forced to marry or enter into contractual sexual relationships for a green card or entry visa. Mutual Adult choices that harm no one should be respected. 

We should all stand up against FORCED commercial sex work, FORCED LABOUR anywhere, anyhow should be condemned. Persons that have chosen sex work whether out of economic circumstances or just because they love it, should be accorded all respect and protection, not pity.

Commercial sex workers should not be denied workers’ rights because of societal stigmatization and moral judgments. They are adults, have made their choices and need not explain to a third party why they made their choice. Decriminalization can help minimize violence, sex trafficking and exploitation of sex workers and a UNION would give them the representation many other workers enjoy. 

Employment CHOICES, whether made out of economic frustration, lack of choice or real passion for the profession MUST BE RESPECTED.

Sex workers do not have to be viewed as people who need help, especially when they are in the profession voluntarily. Not everyone loves their jobs, including commercial sex workers. In almost all profession, you will find people who truly loathe their jobs but are constraint to stay in the jobs because it pays the bills. So next time someone says "but prostitutes don't love their jobs", well ask the person if they truly love their jobs? Also, not loving your job is not a reason for the society to criminalize  or stigmatize your chosen profession. 

Some sex workers are in the profession because, believe it or not, they have a passion for it, many are there because of limited choice but for whatever reasons they are in the profession, RESPECT is the key word, not PITY and certainly not moral judgment.

Sex workers while building their alliances with labour movements, must also build links with social movements that will protect their rights and interests. They should build alliances with  liberal women organisations, human rights organisations which in some cases also help to provide legal services to allies and of course the World Social Forum.

Social movements on their part must continue to demand for a better world, where the oppressed in the society can rise above their oppression, where poverty will not be the motivating factor behind sex work, where people can truly decide what type of work they want to do, be it providing medical service or providing sex service and have their choice equally respected.

It is indeed interesting that some unions have already started organising sex workers and admitting them into their unions while some sex workers have also started organising themselves. In Europe, America, Asia , tentative steps have been taken by unions like the Karnataka Sex workers union Bangalore, International union of sex workers, London, AMMAR, an organisation of sex workers in Argentina, CTA, an Argentine trade union, FNV union confederation in Netherlands UNITE, New Zealand, etc. It is important to build on these developments in order to reach out to many vulnerable and oppressed people in this work who otherwise would not have any valid spokesperson or means of channeling their grievances or opportunity of having their voices heard in the society.

Trade unions in Africa should also try to represent this group of workers, who most often, work in the most demeaning conditions.  Discrimination has no place in trade unionism, the interests of the sex workers must be protected, their voices must be heard and their concerns taken on board. Unions should not just be speaking for sex workers but must also let sex workers speak for themselves from within the unions.

In conclusion, we must bear in mind that organising sex workers itself is not about promoting the sex trade or sex services, it is about PROTECTING the rights of those who either out of choice or no choice find themselves working as sex workers. 

Trade unions cannot and should not discriminate on which category of workers they offer their services to. Workers of the world have always tried to unite against any form of slavery, freely chosen sex work is not slavery and where stifling environment encourages exploitation of this vulnerable group, union machinery should start working to defend the rights of these workers irrespective of status, class, color or gender.